In a world shaped by constant opinion, comparison, and noise, Don Miguel Ruiz offers a refreshingly simple framework for living with clarity and self-respect. The Four Agreements is not a motivational checklist or a productivity guide. Instead, it draws from ancient Toltec wisdom to propose four everyday principles that, when practiced consistently, can reshape how we think, speak, and relate to others.The power of the book lies in its practicality. These agreements are not abstract ideals; they are behavioural commitments that influence daily conversations, emotional responses, and personal standards.1. Be Impeccable with Your WordWords, Ruiz argues, are not neutral. They carry intention, belief, and consequence. To be impeccable with your word means speaking with integrity—saying what you mean and meaning what you say. It also means resisting the temptation to use language as a weapon against yourself or others.Self-criticism, gossip, and careless speech quietly erode confidence and trust. By choosing words that reflect truth rather than fear or frustration, communication becomes an act of responsibility rather than reaction.2. Don’t Take Anything PersonallyThis agreement challenges one of the most common sources of emotional distress. According to Ruiz, what others say or do is rarely about us; it is an expression of… Read MoreYourStory RSS Feed
